Found a Buyer on Your Own? Here’s Why You Still Need an Agent

 
 

So you’re ready to sell your house — but before you even get a chance to snap listing photos and put it on the market, a buyer comes along and makes an offer.

Congratulations, you just cut out many steps of the home-selling process—showings, open houses, and haggling over price.

But keep in mind, you still need an agent. Why? Well, though it might seem like a straightforward transaction between a seller and buyer once an offer is accepted, it is usually not all that simple. You still have a marathon to finish before getting to the closing table.

Which means you’ll still need to pay that agent commissions. But don’t worry, it will be worth the money. We’ve broken down the home-selling process into steps to see what an agent could help you with.

Selling agent commissions explained, if you find the buyer yourself

Neither federal nor state laws govern commission rates, which means commissions are fully negotiable.

“And negotiating the commission is between you and your agent,” says Jackie Davis, a real estate professional with American Realty in Inverness, FL.

To crunch some general numbers, if a home sells for $250,000 at a 6% commission, the seller’s agent would get $15,000. However, keep in mind commission rates usually vary depending on the state you live in and among brokerages.

Always talk with several agents about your particular home-selling needs.

“And find out if and how they would want to handle the sale to a buyer found by the seller,” says Sylvia Jonathan, an agent at Coldwell Banker Platinum Properties in Irvine, CA.

Verbal offers in real estate

In this scenario, a buyer made you an offer and you accepted. However, it’s time to take a step back: Keep in mind, verbal offers are not legally binding in real estate transactions.

Agents usually supply a variety of forms such as residential purchase agreements to get offers in writing. These forms vary to conform to state and local laws and eventually become a binding sales contract. The forms are also known as a purchase agreement, an earnest money agreement, or a deposit receipt. It’s also essential that an offer contain every element needed to serve as a blueprint for the final sale.

An agent can also handle a buyer’s earnest money—usually 1% to 2% of the home’s purchase price—by depositing it in an escrow account held by a third party such as a real estate closing company, an attorney, or a title company agent. Remember, escrow protects sellers. You get to keep that money if a buyer bails on a transaction that’s underway.

The terms of the sale and contingencies need to be handled by an agent

“While it may seem the hard part is over if a seller found a buyer on their own, many obstacles can occur during the contract period that will require an agent’s skill to keep the deal together,” says Jonathan.

For instance, an agent will ask if you and your buyer agree on not just the sales price but also the terms of the sale.

Terms within a purchase agreement include basic information such as the names of the parties involved, the legal description of the property to be transferred, and the agreed-upon price. But terms also list crucial details such as what personal property will be included in the sale (e.g., appliances or fixtures). Leaving any terms of sale out of the purchase agreement can come back to haunt the buyer, the seller, or both.

An agent will also ensure contingencies are added to your contract. Standard contingencies include a buyer securing financing, a home inspection, repairs, and an appraisal—which is crucial to the mortgage process.

Closing costs and how an agent can help

Remember, you need multiple legal documents for the closing, including a clean title. This step is usually done by an attorney, who collects a fee at the closing.

But a real estate agent typically handles getting to the actual closing table by setting a date, coordinating everyone’s schedule, and ensuring all the needed paperwork (which is usually a mound of documents) is ready and correctly signed.

The bottom line

“If a real estate professional can assist you, their compensation is a matter of negotiation between you and the agent,” says Phil Lunnon, a real estate professional with Lunnon Realty in Lakewood, CO.

But hiring an agent to write the offer and guide it toward the closing table is a smart move.

Read more at Realtor.com

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12 Romantic Ideas for Celebrating Valentine's Day at Home

 
 

If an expensive dinner at a crowded restaurant leaves you exhausted on Valentine's Day, it might be time to try something less high-profile. Fortunately, planning a Valentine's Day celebration at home can be just as romantic—if not more romantic—because you can set the scene to your preferences.

Whether it's a candlelit dinner, curated music, or a fun game night, spending Valentine's Day at home can be a luxury—even if kids are home. Try these romantic ideas to make your at-home date extraordinary and special.

Make Plans for the Kids

Before you do any other planning for Valentine's Day at home, make sure you can carve out some alone time. If you have young kids, make plans for them—at home or with a sitter. If you keep the kids at home, you'll have to be a little more creative.

Serve them dinner early and separately. Have a little fun setting up their own "restaurant" with a kid-friendly menu and play money or credit cards so they can pay their bill and tip the server. After the kids eat, one of you can take care of bedtime duties while the other preps for the rest of the celebration.

Decorate Your Space

Think about how your favorite eateries create ambiance and work the same magic at home with Valentine's Day decor. If you're sharing a meal, use your best dishes, clear away anything that's not-so-romantic (bye-bye laptop), and create a stellar tablescape.

Flowers can be pricey around Valentine's Day, so skip the roses and use plenty of votive candles (flameless candles are a safe option). Add a table runner and some potted herbs or succulents for a touch of green.

You don't have to eat in your dining room, either. Consider creating a cozy spot in the living room with cushions near the coffee table, plan an indoor picnic, or even serve dessert on trays in bed.

Prepare a Special Meal

If you or your partner like to cook, go all out with a multi-course Valentine's Day dinner. Or put a twist on it—maybe you want to make it a night of quick appetizers or serve a slew of aphrodisiacs in your feast.

Or, instead of a full dinner, indulge in a dessert-only menu for your at-home date. Whether you serve a few store-bought treats or decide to bake a few mini Valentine's desserts, the important thing is to savor the flavors throughout the night.

If you're both early birds, celebrate Valentine's Day with a delicious breakfast in bed. You can try a breakfast casserole recipe or make ahead a slow cooker breakfast that will be ready when you wake up. Add some fresh-squeezed juice or a morning cocktail to complete your celebration.

Mix Up Specialty Cocktails

Indulge in a few favorite drinks by mixing your own cocktails or mocktails. Try a Valentine's cocktail or a classic cocktail recipe. You could even narrow it down to a wine-tasting or around-the-world beer tour. Find flavors you and your partner will enjoy. This V-Day activity can be enjoyed on its own, or it can be the backdrop for other plans at home. A little extra thought here will go a long way.

Play Some Music and Dance Without Phones

Create a soundtrack for your Valentine's Day at home. You can put together a list of all your sentimental favorites or pull a romantic playlist from Spotify, Pandora, or another streaming service. (And since you're in your own space, slow dancing between courses is suggested.)

Dancing together is a top-notch way to add intimacy to your date night at home. While you can curate a romantic playlist with a few of your favorites, you can also try an energetic dance game, dance workout, or even challenge each other to a dance battle. Explore videos and music on your favorite platform to help your dance night be successful.

Plan Light-Hearted Activities

Valentine's Day is the perfect time to mix it up if your date nights at home are getting a little dull. Consider splurging on a date night kit, which will surprise you with themed boxes of activities, playlists, and treats that suit your interests. Or try something new, like an online cooking class or other activity you'll both enjoy.

For an educational at-home date, try visiting a museum or art gallery right from the comfort of your home. Many venues offer virtual experiences or tours—even the Louvre Museum.

For a few laughs, try some friendly competition with a couple's game night. Bring out childhood favorites or try a new-to-you board game. You can even challenge yourselves to a few video games if that's more your style.

Break a Sweat and Then Relax

Working up a sweat together by getting active or exercising can be a unique way to celebrate Valentine's Day. You'll burn calories and boost up endorphins. Try an online yoga class or YouTube workout, or get outside for a friendly soccer game.

After you're hot and sweaty, take a bath together, but not before you create an at-home spa experience. Fill your tub with scented essential oils, light a few candles, and relax with a warm bath. Then, give each other a well-deserved massage or take care of your skin with a body scrub.

Watch Romantic Movies by the Fire

If snuggling up on the couch is your speed, plan a Valentine's Day movie marathon (which you can do after you do any of the above activities). Pick a few favorites or decide to watch something new. Just be sure to find a cozy blanket and add lots of popcorn.

Bonus: If you have a fireplace or outdoor fire pit, cozy up with your loved one to enjoy the movie with added ambiance. Add a warm drink and low lights to set the mood. Try upgrading your cup of coffee or brewing a flavorful tea.

Get Nostalgic

Reminiscing on your past is a wonderful way to spend a quiet Valentine's Day at home. Grab your wedding album or video and relive your wedding day. Or talk about that first date or time when you first met. You can even put together a photo album showcasing some of your favorite memories.

In addition, let your loved one know just how much they mean to you with a homemade Valentine's Day card. Add a special note or a Valentine's quote that conveys a sentimental message.

Share a Thoughtful Gift

Valentine's Day at home is the perfect time to remind the special people in your life how much they mean to you. Share your appreciation with a Valentine's Day gift from the heart.

Even if money is tight, you can give plenty of free (or nearly free) gifts to make Valentine's Day unforgettable.

Get Crafty

Looking to get creative? Having a arts and crafts night with your special person is a great way to have fun while making something meaningful together. Try an online art class or make a Valentine's Day craft. Gather some art supplies and let your imagination soar.

Go Stargazing

Nothing says true romance like a night under the stars with your special person. Whether you’re in your backyard, on a balcony, or simply gazing through a window, sharing the wonder of the night sky together makes for a simple yet magical way to connect. So bundle up, step outside, and bask in the beauty of the cosmos (and each other!)

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Single Women Own 2.72 Million More Homes Than Single Men In US — And The Gap Is Growing. Here's What It Means.

 
 

When it comes to property ownership, single women in the U.S. have a major edge — owning 2.72 million more homes than single men according to LendingTree.

In fact, they outnumber single male homeowners in 47 out of 50 states. Pew Research Center data from 2023 shows that single women own 58% of the 5.2 million properties possessed by unmarried Americans.

This may come as a surprise because of the gender wage gap. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, women in the U.S. earn on average 83% of what men do. However, there are some central reasons why single women are more likely to be homeowners.

Why single women are buying more homes

First off, some women actually earn more money than men in some markets. Pew Research found that women under 30 in 22 different cities have higher average salaries than their male peers. In areas where women earn more, they are in a better financial position to buy a home.

Some suggest that single women may be more interested in homeownership than single men, and more willing to do the work to save and make it happen.

However, there are also more clear-cut reasons women buy more homes even though they are single. Specifically:

Single women heading households. As the U.S. Census Bureau reveals, women are more likely to be single parents or caregivers for elderly relatives, both of which could prompt them to want to buy a home.

Widows as homeowners. Women often live longer than men, so many widows end up owning family homes. This might explain why the homeownership gender gap is narrower among millennials and older members of Gen Z but wider among older adults.

What does this mean for the real estate market?

Unfortunately, research from the Yale School of Management shows single women earn lower returns when buying and selling properties than single men.

On average, they pay 2% more for properties and sell them for 2% less. As more women come into the market, this could impact home values.

Since single women are more likely to have dependents, they may be less flexible on timing the real estate market than male buyers. This could drive sales in the spring and summer seasons, when school is out — typically the busiest times for buyers.

Women may also prioritize different things when looking for a home, such as safety and security features.

As developers respond to changing demand in single homeownership, they may build smaller, more affordable properties across the board. Both single men and single women would benefit from having housing options geared toward their needs.

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Breaking Into the Market: Smart Moves for First-Time Buyers

 
 

If you’re like a lot of aspiring homebuyers, there’s a major hurdle standing in your way — the cost of living. From groceries to gas, eggs, and just about everything else, prices have gone up. And that rings true for home prices, too.

But even when everything feels expensive, there are still ways to make homeownership more than an item on your wish list. You may just need to think about where you plan to buy a bit differently.

Think of Your First Home as a Stepping Stone

One of the biggest misconceptions among buyers is that their first home has to be their forever home – or that it has to check all the boxes of what they want right out of the gate. In reality, it’s just a starting point.

Once you own a home, you start to build equity, which grows over time as home prices rise. Down the road, if you want to move — whether to a larger space, a better location, or both — the equity you’ve gained can help you do just that.

So rather than waiting until you can afford your dream home in your ideal neighborhood, consider starting with something that works for now.

Expand Your Search To Find More Affordable Options

If high home prices in your favorite area are holding you back, it’s time to cast a wider net. By keeping an open mind and being flexible with location, you may be surprised at what’s possible within your budget. Many buyers find success by looking in surrounding areas – and some even choose to move out of state.

Of course, moving to a different state isn’t for everyone – and isn’t a necessity. The right agent can help you find more cost-effective options wherever you are.

If you want to stay local, looking just outside your preferred neighborhood could help you find something you can afford that’s still pretty close to your favorite restaurants, shops, and activities. Sometimes, moving as little as 10 minutes away makes a big difference.

And the best way to see what’s available is to work with a real estate agent who understands the local market and can help you identify hidden gems nearby. An agent can point you to communities you may not have considered that have lower price tags now and are steadily gaining value and appeal. That way you can buy your first home and be set up to gain equity through the years.

Bottom Line

Today’s cost of living is a challenge for many homebuyers. But by exploring different areas and working with a knowledgeable agent, you can take that first step toward owning a home — and building equity for your future.

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Just Listed: Updated Countryside Home with Breathtaking Views

 
 
 

Don’t miss this amazing opportunity to own a move-in ready home with stunning MOUNTAIN + SUNRISE/SUNSET VIEWS

Backing to a greenbelt with a park and just minutes from Ketner Open Space, Westminster Hills Open Space + Dog Park, and miles of trails, this home offers instant access to Colorado’s natural beauty. The open-concept upper level flows seamlessly from the living room to the dining area, kitchen, and spacious raised deck—perfect for entertaining.

All three bedrooms and a full bath are conveniently located on the lower level. Notable updates include a new furnace, water heater, radon mitigation system, dishwasher, washing machine, and newer vinyl windows. Neutral paint, newer flooring, and fixtures make this home fully move-in ready with room for personal touches.

The incredible backyard boasts raised flower beds, apple trees, and a new 12x10 insulated, solar-powered shed—ideal as an office, gym, play space, or flex room. Enjoy peaceful mornings with sunrise views and evenings watching the sunset over the Flatirons from your private oasis. Just steps from Mayfair Park, Standley Lake, and local dining, with easy highway access for quick commutes.

Listed by Kate Kazell for West + Main Homes. Please contact Kate for current pricing + availability.

 
 
 

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